Sunday, June 28, 2009

Reaching goals-a communal effort

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She lost her nerve; she couldn't play the piece she'd played perfectly two weeks ago. Mistakes kept cropping up. Panic ensued.
She refused to play at the concert but mum wouldn't let her give up, nor stew in her frustration either. She knew that her daughter needed a way to tackle her trouble. Mum asked the music teacher if, when the other kids had gone home after the concert she might go over the trouble spots with her daughter. The teacher applauded the idea.
Enter the helping team:over and over student and teacher worked out the difficulties while grandma and grandpa,parents,sisters,and dogs all sat attentively giving their support.

Back home, days before the exam, older sister continued to help with practice and difficulty over note reading
Mum supervised scales.
Middle sister explained intervals, humming them and kindly going over them together with her. Dad was an appreciative audience. All this because she'd decided she wanted to do this thing. And she did this thing and whether or not she passes with flying colours or fails miserably she's learned that she can count on her family to help her reach her goals.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Dream Big

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M told me she wants to be a famous actor. I said 'one step at a time'- you have to work towards your goals. She said if you don't have a dream, and if you don't actively keep envisioning it than it can not come true. I realize that she is right. I don't dream enough. I have been afraid to dream- to 'dare to dream.'

Elder's Meditation of the Day - Wednesday, June 24, 2009,


"Believing people can soar beyond
ordinary life."

--Fools Crow, LAKOTA

We are created by God to be vision people.
First we set the goal and then we see. If we create within
ourselves a picture or vision and we hold that picture or
vision in our mind, whatever we picture will show up in our
reality. If we can see ourselves being educated, then schools
and teachers will show up in our lives. If we picture in our
mind a positive, spiritual person to be in our lives, we will
attract this type of person in our relationships. How big can
our dreams be?

Great Spirit, let my visions today be Your vision. Put within me a vision of the being you would have me be. Then help
me to keep the vision in my mind.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Open it up!

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Okay, so I am on a John Taylor Gatto roll. You will be seeing, listening and reading more of Gatto on this blog because what he has to say is of greater urgency than ever before. Our physical world is threatened by our stupidity, yet we keep educating (read 'schooling') our kids based on the same principles we've been upholding since state education became compulsory 150 years ago.

In this really long video you will listen to Gatto talk about a strategy of learning called Open Source Learning. Inspired by Linus Tovalds's Open System (in contrast to Microsoft's hoarding approach) Open source learning is another name for unschooling, interest based, learner directed education.

Open source learning "allows everything under the sun as a possible starting point on the road to self mastery,"says Gatto.
"Nobody can give you and education. Education must be taken by those who want one. The will and dogged persistence of the seeker are the only essential tools needed to become educated. Teachers, text, money play only minor roles and papers, pencils, tests play no role at all."

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Homeschooling in the UK-under threat

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Don't ever take the right to home educate for granted. As we are witnessing in some European countries such as Sweden, homeschooling is about to be banned. It's always been verboten in Germany. In the Netherlands you can apply for permission to home educate on very narrow grounds,usually religious. Once permission is granted, you have to re-apply every year.

In the UK, Graham Badman was commissioned by the government to look into if home education is safe for the children being homeschooled and if they are getting a suitable education. The report can be read at
http://www.dcsf.gov.uk/everychildmatters/ete/independentreviewofhomeeducation/irhomeeducation/

He raises the question of a possible link between home education (HE) and child abuse. Amongst the recommendations of the Badman report are:

- Compulsory registration for all home educators

- The right of entry into HE homes without suspicion of wrong-doing

- The right to interview HE children without adult support - again without suspicion of abuse or risk to them

- Requirement for a 12 month plan, against which 'progress' will be measured.

The review seems to be especially against unschooling/autonomous education (as it is known in the UK) and described it as 'little better than child-minding'.

Alison Sauer who home educates in the UK and trains local authorities in home ed and the law reports on one unschooling list that I'm on that, "As far as the Badman report is concerned, so far it is all just recommendation. Most of the more serious proposals would take major primary legislation change - and those changes would not just affect EHE (electively home educating) parents but all parents as it changes the relationship of the state to the parent and child. This will take years."

Following the report the government has put parts of 2 of Mr Badman's recommendations to consultation, as they are bound by law to do before attempting to bring them into law through parliament.

The consultation can be seen here

http://www.dcsf.gov.uk/consultations/index.cfm?action=consultationDetails&consultationId=1643&external=no&menu=1

Sauer points out the really worrying proposal:

"Local authorities tell us that they need greater powers to ensure that home educated children are safe, well, and receiving a suitable education. The current arrangements allow parents to submit evidence that a `suitable education' is being provided, which could be mainly written evidence. Local authorities have no powers to interview home educated children to establish that sample material provided is representative of their work, nor to establish that they are safe and well."

"We believe that local authorities should interview children within 4 weeks of home education starting, after 6 months has elapsed, and thereafter at least annually to assess the quality of education provided and ensure that children are safe and well. The local authority should visit the premises where education is conducted, and question the child about the education provided, although at least 2 weeks notice should be given before the visit is conducted. The local authority should have the right to carry out the interview without a parent being present, if this is judged appropriate, or alternatively if the child is vulnerable or has particular communication needs, in the company of a trusted person who is not the home educator or parent/carer.

Sauer's response is that,"The second proposed change will affect both the legal responsibilities of Local Authorities (i.e. they will make LAs responsible for the welfare of home educated children as opposed to the current position where they have a responsibility to act where concerns are raised) and the human rights of the parents and children (an issue of both national and international law)."
To keep abreast of this disturbing development check out the following blogs:
http://sometimesitspeaceful.blogspot.com/

Also http://www.renegadeparent.net/

Thursday, June 18, 2009

John Taylor Gatto

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Thursday, June 11, 2009

Music education

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"I don't care if I don't pass the RCM grade 3 exam," My ten year old tells me. "I know I'm good at piano, I compose beautiful songs and I don't care about marks. I don't care about the little scales and the sight reading and what ever. I know I'm good."
That's what my daughter said to me when I reminded her to practice for the upcoming exam.
She has had a tough time with preparing for this exam; mostly doing it for her teacher or me, not really for herself. She is not as prepared as a person taking this exam ought to be- but she continues to plug away as much as she is comfortable with. My fear is that I may have helped turned her off piano for life- this kid who loved the piano so much when she was wee. As it is she is turned off exams and says she will never do another one again.

The problem with exams and marks is that it ruins everything. My middle kid had her violin festival this past weekend and she bombed her very best piece. She should have walked away with first place but instead she fumbled massively the piece that she usually plays wonderfully and ended up with the third place. She was deeply disappointed with herself.
Later she said she didn't believe that they should give out awards because, "nothing is as good as first place. When you don't get first place you don't care about the second or third. The adjudicator should just go over your mistakes with you."

She did also learn an important lessons from this experience: she had not bowed to the audience when she finished after the applause. The adjudicator pointed this out and asked her to come up to the stage and take a bow. "You were eager to come out to play your piece and it didn't go as well as you anticipated. But we need to be gracious and accept the audience's appreciation and acknowledge it."
"Life is about learning. There is nothing else."

Monday, June 1, 2009

Kids say the funniest things!

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Kai age 6;
(waking up): Mom! I'm back from my dreams!
(going to sleep): I'm sooo tired... I'm exhaust-pipe!
Maya age 4:
(refusing to put on her coat): You do what's best for you, and I'll do what's best for me
(going to sleep): Mama, I weally, weally wuv you